Hi Debra
If you do decide to get the calf, if possible I would milk your heifer for the first day or two and feed the calf from a bottle, that way the calf gets use to you and the heifer gets use to letting her milk down, if she is very quiet and you can be sure she will not kick the calf, try and see if she will let him suckle, if she will not, then once he is use to you get him to suckle from the back, as the cow can not kick him there, I use to do a lot of double suckling and they soon catch on where it is safer to suckle from, your heifer may take to him, or she may never let him suck with out supervision, so you must be prepared for the possibility that you have to supervise all his feeds for the next six months. Also unless the heifer is happy to have him around her, I would pen the calf up near her, but so she is not able to attack him should she decide this is not for her.
However i often found that once they got back in calf they become much more relaxed about the business. What ever you decide to do, good luck
